Look at this lost and pained soul standing before you who has just hurt you, acted from their ego self, and know that you no longer want to look like them, act like them. They’re showing you a part of yourself that you’re ready to surrender.
All that’s required of you in this moment of anger is to see the other person as a wounded soul doing the best they can from their own level of awareness. Love them for their pain and struggles because you’re just like them. By loving them, you’re healing yourself.
Rise above the unconscious ego behavior they’re showing you – because it’s ugly, selfish and desperate, and that’s not who you are. That’s not who you aspire to be.
One simple breath and a request for guidance, pulls you away from habitual reaction and raises you a notch towards your great soul potential. Thank the messenger for the lesson; thank the soul standing before you who triggered your reaction. Your anger is revealed so that it can be healed.
The next time someone says or does something that triggers your anger, you’ll already be removed from the ego experience, more in touch with your soul’s wisdom, watching it all unfold from your divine lens. You’ll pause, take a breath, adjust your lens, and choose your words gracefully. Compassion will pour through you if you allow it.
This is the gift of your anger. This is the gift of your opponent arriving with their sword drawn, eager to slice a piece of you. In that moment of sacred recognition, everything changes, and you realize that nothing and no one can ever hurt you or tarnish your lovely soul – when you view it through your divine lens.
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Because I couldn’t see the logic of not jumping off the cliff and instead felt, with all my heart, that the jump must be made, I took the leap; it was the leap that changed everything and brought me into the glory of a luminous world that lives within everyone and everything.
And once I’d made that leap it became so easy to do it again, and again, whenever I found myself in a corner and couldn’t see the light. I had discovered that light lives in the leap. And love awaits the courageous act.
And now nothing could ever keep me from the leap or dampen my courage. What a gift this was and I am still so grateful. It is the best truth I ever learned and worth every bruise I ever suffered.
Without the leap we don’t understand a thing. We think the glory is in the withholding, the caution, politeness, acceptance, boundaries.
But none of those places hold truth. And none of them teach us to fly.
Caution is a weighted thing and it puts you on the bench to watch the game.
Caution keeps you seated nervously on the cliff’s edge viewing everything you fear below, counting all the reasons that a leap would ruin you, explaining all the ways it could go badly, telling stories of how to live with planning and steadfastness without ever being foolish.
At the end of the game, you’ll see that it was you being foolish.
Because everything that ever mattered lived in the leap; that one moment of taking a breath and trusting in the wind to carry you, seeing suddenly that letting go was everything – it was always the point of your existence and the reason for your story.
From my upcoming book: Putting On The Divine Lens
What you hold in your heart is the pearl of enlightenment that you came to awaken in this lifetime. All of us came here holding this pearl of wisdom, carrying it in our hearts, its essence vibrating within us to raise our consciousness even while we walk here amongst the flesh, the dense energy, the heavy curtain of forgetfulness that exists on this realm.
This pearl lives within each of us – waiting to be activated, awakened, so we can fulfill our mission here and evolve – helping others along the way.
You may find yourself sleeping as your days fill with routine, as you follow rules handed to you by others, as you feel un-empowered and like a victim on your journey. At those moments you are not awake. You are sleepwalking. Forgetting who you are and why you came here; a forgetful ghost going through the motions of physical existence.
Yet, love will activate your pearl. Not the act of receiving love – although that helps. The act of giving love. Opening your heart in moments of great fear and offering love to those people and situations you fear most. Now your pearl is fully activated and pulsing in divine order. You’re in alignment.
You’re vibrating at such a high frequency that now you are an alchemist, changing the forms of people and things around you. Changing your own form from dense and heavy – to light-filled and translucent. You have activated your divine lens.
Our pain and grief is meant to open our hearts, strengthen our connection to the divine & inspire us to accomplish our soul’s greatest mission and tells us why.
Talking To Loved Ones On The Other Side
- How do you communicate with the other side? Can others develop this ability?
- Do our departed loved ones try to communicate with us often? Do we block it out?
- How can you recognize a sign from the other side?
- Why do you think we need to communicate? How does it help heal our pain and grief?
- You say that grief is meant to open our hearts, why is that?